Everything that we choose to do has a ripple effect. Our actions will not just affect you but the people around you as well. When we pass over we go through a process where we feel how we made others feel. This is why it is so important we spread kindness and love. The world is full of fake, negative people. We need to learn to focus on ourselves and our own lives. Do not worry about what others think, we are all on different soul paths and journeys. The ONLY thing that matters is your happiness, what you think of yourself, and the life you are creating for yourself.